My old high school friends would be surprised to know
I have gotten divorced. Actually my husband of 54 years of marriage, ran off with a married woman and lives with her husband and the adulterer. Of course, he was an adulterer, too.... cheated, lied to my face and never showed any empathy for his deceit. Never ever saw it coming, but life goes on!
I have survived a hip replacement and getting ready (Nov 12, 24) to have a complete right shoulder replacement without any help from him. My girls help when they can, but they have families and jobs which take up their time. I am a strong woman and am much better without a person who wanted a much younger woman.